We know the story. Humanity is suffering because some evil, power hungry monster wants to take over the planet. So along comes…superman, batman, ironman or any number of other superheros to save the day. How would humanity survive without them! But this is only movie reality isn’t it? It doesn’t happen in real life. Or [...]
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A Recipe for Living Well
As I worked with James he began to ponder the connections he had with other people and whether he actually shared the truth about life with people. He started to recognise that there were accepted topics for conversations and a person’s inner life was not one of these topics.
The Eyes of Love: Bringing Out the Best in Each Other
“Things are very comfortable with Tim1, but I just don’t know … there seems to be something missing”. Miranda had come to counselling to talk about her current boyfriend as she was contemplating whether to take the next step and move in with him. Another client, Fiona, was in the opposite position. She had already [...]
Let’s Kondo our Psyche
There have been a lot of hard rubbish collection piles in our streets recently as people use the Covid isolation time to rid themselves of old junk and ‘Kondo’ their homes. Most people by now have heard of Marie Kondo, who encourages us to clear our cupboards and keep only what brings us joy. It’s [...]
Silver linings – learnings from social isolation
“I miss the connectedness with the human race.”So says a client discussing home isolationrecently. As with many people, she is realising how much she actually gained from being around people. The small gestures, random conversations, our ‘sparking’ off each other. Being human means being connected. We can be ‘introverts’ but still love the warmth and [...]
The evolutionary invitation within a pandemic
To say that there is a lot going on in the world at present would be an understatement. But just as much is going on inside people’s homes and in their hearts. I work as a therapist, so I see this all at close range and it is not just that there is a virus [...]